The Fate Motıve

Such was the fate of his Mother, whom most people witnessed in daily life, were sentences as if they didn't smile, their fate was bad really realized by a power we had no influence? How much influence do we have on our own destiny? We address these and similar questions with the concept of fate motif

Aug 8, 2023 - 20:08
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The Fate Motıve
The Fate Motıve

THE FATE MOTIVE

It has become quite common lately to have fortune-telling without gender discrimination. What can be the expectations and purposes of people closing their cups?

Let's find an answer to this protector through the motif of destiny. It is an effort for people to learn this unknown again by means of fortune telling or similar tools, where they can see their destiny as an unchangeable destiny. The concept we call the destiny motif is actually an excellent tool for our curiosity and desires.

Motifs are repetitive tools. For example, a person who has summed up as unloved in his past life will have a war that he cannot be loved right now, and a war that he will not be loved 10 years from now. At which point the person aims to change himself, there is to protect his life.

Basically, we hate the color pairing from our own mind, such as fear, hope, failure, joy, that a person can experience throughout their life. Then we will decide which color is dominant in our daily life. The dominant situation or emotion forms our motif. After that, let's try to draw what we almost experienced or saw this feeling in our past. We can call this situation “Knowing Yourself” in psychology. It is very important for a person to determine his motive first in order to direct his destiny.

The concept of destiny has been passed on to us as an unchangeable situation since our ancestors, of course, there are parts of it, but not completely. The decisions that rule our lives, our choices, our reactions to events and events are actually the part that creates our future. We do not change our destiny in a tangible way, but if we can work the way we are going, we should change the view in the parts where we cannot change our way. It is seeing in the temporal world that one has changed by himself.

There are many factors that protect our motif. These include children's family development, whether desired or unwanted due to a caregiver's attention dimensions. We come around the world in a way and we protect whether we use it or not. The stereotypical sentence “ancestral lineage and lineage” summarizes the situation.

Children who grow up in a quiet house will be calm in the future; Raised in a quarrelsome family with loud voices, speech is likely to be combative. But do our families only affect us? No. The internal distribution environment affects our choices as well as us. Examining these motives not only includes school in the family environment, but also the childhood period among our peers. The way people dream from a very young age creates a kind of motivation. It is precisely in the different settlements that live with imagined situations that the motif of destiny comes to take over.

Growing up in the motif of destiny is the behavior that is engraved in our minds as we become accustomed to the world.

Among all these events, let's talk about a few events that will affect us in the early stages of childhood.

⁃ If childhood parents did not show enough love and compassion

⁃ If a safe environment is not prepared,

⁃ If the growing environment is fighting and showing

⁃ You are not made to feel that you are unique and valuable by family members, and you are constantly judged.

⁃ If a distinction is made between siblings and other siblings are favored

⁃ If you had to make a constant effort to be loved and accepted, but you did not receive enough attention

⁃ If you have been sexually harassed and the family has not provided you with sufficient support

⁃ If the mother or father has had a serious illness in the family for a long time and you have neglected it in this short time.

⁃ If your family is tired of coming to you with their own difficulties

⁃ If the mother's quiet, calm and unprotected nature pushed you to the task of protecting her

⁃ If parents are constantly critical and constantly set goals that are difficult to achieve

⁃ If the parents have gone through the divorce process or experienced any loss

If you have experienced this or a few of them, you probably have your signature on your motives on your destiny. Think about each item and which one you're matching, and what image it comes from and where you can change it.

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